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Stories and values: selflessness and solidarity

Giving blood is a modern act, but its values are old: selflessness (ithar), solidarity (takaful) and charity. Here are authentic stories from the Sunna.

Selflessness: the Ansari's guest

وَيُؤْثِرُونَ عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ وَلَوْ كَانَ بِهِمْ خَصَاصَةٌ

Quran, Surah al-Hashr (59), verse 9

A man came to the Prophet ﷺ, and his households had nothing but water. A man of the Ansar took him home, where there was only the children's supper. They put the children to bed, put out the lamp and pretended to eat so the guest could eat, and went to bed hungry. This verse was revealed about them (al-Bukhari). Meaning: they prefer others over themselves, even when they are in need.

Sahih al-Bukhari 3798 · Quran 59:9

Solidarity: the Ash'aris

إِنَّ الأَشْعَرِيِّينَ إِذَا أَرْمَلُوا فِي الْغَزْوِ، أَوْ قَلَّ طَعَامُ عِيَالِهِمْ بِالْمَدِينَةِ جَمَعُوا مَا كَانَ عِنْدَهُمْ فِي ثَوْبٍ وَاحِدٍ، ثُمَّ اقْتَسَمُوهُ بَيْنَهُمْ فِي إِنَاءٍ وَاحِدٍ بِالسَّوِيَّةِ، فَهُمْ مِنِّي وَأَنَا مِنْهُمْ

Sahih al-Bukhari 2486, from Abu Musa al-Ash'ari

When food ran short, they gathered what they had in one sheet and shared it out equally, and the Prophet ﷺ said: they are from me and I am from them (meaning). A blood bank is like that sheet: everyone puts in a little, and whoever is in need finds some.

Sahih al-Bukhari 2486

The one body

مَثَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ فِي تَوَادِّهِمْ وَتَرَاحُمِهِمْ وَتَعَاطُفِهِمْ مَثَلُ الْجَسَدِ إِذَا اشْتَكَى مِنْهُ عُضْوٌ تَدَاعَى لَهُ سَائِرُ الْجَسَدِ بِالسَّهَرِ وَالْحُمَّى

Sahih Muslim 2586, from al-Nu'man ibn Bashir

Meaning: the believers, in their love, mercy and compassion, are like one body; when one part aches, the whole body stays awake with fever. The patient waiting for blood in a hospital far from you is part of that body.

Sahih Muslim 2586

The man who gave water to a dog

فِي كُلِّ كَبِدٍ رَطْبَةٍ أَجْرٌ

Sahih al-Bukhari 2363, from Abu Hurayrah

A thirsty man went down a well to drink. Coming out, he saw a dog panting with thirst; he went back down, filled his shoe with water and gave it to the dog. God thanked him and forgave him. The Companions asked whether there was a reward even for animals; the Prophet ﷺ said: there is a reward for every living being (meaning).

Sahih al-Bukhari 2363

Wanting for your brother what you want for yourself

لاَ يُؤْمِنُ أَحَدُكُمْ حَتَّى يُحِبَّ لأَخِيهِ مَا يُحِبُّ لِنَفْسِهِ

Sahih al-Bukhari 13, from Anas ibn Malik

Meaning: none of you truly believes until they want for their brother what they want for themselves. If someone in your family needs blood tomorrow, you will want them to find it. Today's donation is what keeps blood there for tomorrow.

Sahih al-Bukhari 13

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